Woman plus...

    Raissa Maximovna's Club

    By Julia Kachalova

In the not so distant past, which is associated with the empty counters, the cold war and the ardent expressions of fidelity to the Cause of the Great Lenin, the so-called friendly circle was the only possible way build a bridge between the public and the private life. The friendly circle was a specific type of the self-organization of people into non-formal public groups, born in the setting of reprisals and the suppression of the personality. The part, which the friendly circle played in the life of the Soviet man, was exceptionally great. First, it was a source of the links, whose value was no less than that of the freely convertible currency.
Second, it to a certain measure assumed upon itself the functions of the social security. And third, it is precisely within this circle of the single-minded people that the citizens' political convictions took shape, which were a far cry from those declared at the official meetings. And finally, the most manifest aspect of the part, played by the friendly circle, was the possibility of a frank communication and of spending the free time together.
Our life has drastically changed over the recent decade. The money, which only yesterday could not buy anything, has become the only deficit. The problem of the property differentiation of the once homogeneous society has come into a bold relief. The state has started to demand from its citizens not to show their fidelity, but to pay the taxes. The Scriptures are now taught at school. Political anecdotes are openly ventilated on the television, and the number of the parties can in the nearest future catch up with the numbers of the country's adult population.
The friendly circle has not survived these changes. The drive for the money, which has replaced the values of socialism, and a sharp property stratification, have in many cases caused the dissolution of the former friendly links. The individual aspects of the integral problem, dealt with in the past by the friendly circle, have been taken over by the public and the corporative associations, by the public movements, by the charity foundations and by the self-support groups. And these days we are witnessing an unabating growth of popularity of the club-type organizations, which is a proof that the need to establish new friendly links among the people with a certain similarity of the concepts, the values and the ways of life is coming to the fore. People are as a rule getting together in a club to resolve the problem of communication and of their free time. But their goals are not restricted to this alone.
The Club of Raissa Maximovna Gorbacheva has been in existence for less than a year now. An idea to develop her own socially-important projects, apart from the public activity of her husband, has come to the spouse of the ex-President of the USSR under the impact of a multitude of letters, telephone calls and petitions. In all of them, one and the same question was asked: "You are a woman, who has managed to destroy the stereotype of the spouse of the first person of the state, which prevailed in this country for many a year, and to win recognition of your own social role; why, then, don't you make use of your potential today?"
One Dutch businessman and public figure, devoting much of his efforts to charity, has helped to translate this idea into life. One day he has also asked Raissa Maximovna, why does she not make independent efforts to try and improve the present position of women in Russia, which is very precarious, indeed, apart from the activity of her husband. And he has allocated a certain sum of money, which helped to turn the idea into the concrete form of Raissa Maximovna's Club.
Today the Club membership consists of 18 persons - 16 women and two men. Raissa Maximovna Gorbacheva is the President of the Club, and her daughter, Irina Mikhailovna Virganskaya - its Vice-President and chief organizer of all the Club events. What is it, then, that unites the women - members of Raissa Maximovna's Club? Irina Virganskaya emphasizes three points, which are, in her opinion, the most important.
"First of all, all the Club members are the people, who have realized themselves on the personality, the social and the professional plane, and who have created for themselves their own name and status in society. Secondly, they are the people, loyal to our family. We have not been planning to start a broad political movement, so we have invited only those people, with whom it is pleasant for us to communicate. And finally, all members of our Club occupy an active stand in life."
It is probably an active stand in life, typical of the Club members, that underlies the fact that, when discussing their mission, they have unanimously decided: they cannot be satisfied with only the pleasure of communication. The name of Raissa Maximovna, still associated with an image of the first lady of the state, also imposes certain responsibility, not letting them reduce the Club's work to a nice pastime alone. Raissa Maximovna's Club, Irina Virganskaya went on to say, unites representatives of the intelligentsia, the public figures; this is why we have selected those forms of work, which are interesting to us and which help us resolve the problems of great social importance. Today there are many urgent problems, requiring close attention. To raise a problem, to trigger a public discussion and a broad response, to render support to practical projects - these are the goals, which the Club sets itself.
The first public discussion was organized by the Raissa Maximovna's Club on October 30, 1997, under the name, Russia Today: A Woman's View. It was attended by the representatives of highly different social groups and public organizations, so that the range of the raised problems was very wide. Irina Mikhailovna estimates this first experience rather critically:
"We wanted, first, to initiate a public discussion, and second, to announce the Club's existence. The media were very active, so that our second task was fulfilled. As to the public discussion, I think it was poorly organized. Our principal error, in my opinion, was that we brought together the people, occupied with vastly different problems (the Soldiers' Mothers Committee, the associations of women artists, of business women, etc.). As a result, each of the invited groups raised its own problems for the most part, while hardly listening to what the others were saying."
The Club members took a different approach to prepare for the second get-together, to selecting the problem and the would-be participants, too. Into the focus of the public discussion, held under the name, Our Children: the Future Image and the Educational Practice, was placed the multifaceted problem of the upbringing. Raissa Maximovna Gorbacheva said at the opening of the get-together, that the choice was not made at random: "There are a great many problems in Russia today, and all of them are urgent and painful. But no matter in what situation society finds itself, it just has to think about the future, which is embodied in its children."
The fact that taking part in the discussion were the scholars, pedagogues and journalists, the heads of non-profit organizations and public figures, as well as representatives of the authorities, has made it possible to consider the problem of bringing up the growing generation from different angles.
THE STATE

Lilia Shevtsova, politologist. "... We do not see an interest of the state to tackling this problem. Do you remember The Seven Problems, proclaimed by the young reformers in 1997? Do you remember The Twelve Problems, also proclaimed, but this time by the Government? Are there the problems of the youth, or of the children, among them? You can hardly recollect this now. Of course, we can explain this by objective reasons: the state is weak, the new society is at the stage of consolodation, and the problems have been accumulating... Now there are two roads before us. The first is to try and draw in the state, just to make it listen. And the other is the initiative on the part of the citizens, a search for the interested people. And of course, there exist the initiative, the people and the means, besides the state."

THE SCHOOL

Shalva Amonashvili, Honorary Academician of the Russian Acedemy of Education: "The face of the school is the teacher. Any reform in the sphere of education will fail, or will stop halfway, if the teacher is not renovated. I see two types of the teacher: The first is characterized by an authoriatarian way of thinking, and the other - by a humanist one... I have met many teachers in different cities of Russia. And I am aware how urgently are the Russian teachers striving for the new. But the teachers' training at the higher educational establishments is far from perfect. Up to this day, we have been working by the old plans, and as a result we reproduce the former type of the teacher - of an authoritarian make."

THE PARENTS

Marina Arutyunyan, psychologist: "In the given context, people rarely speak about the situation, in which the parents have found themselves. And this is a very complicated problem. The parents have come under a numerous pressure from all sides. They are relied upon by the elder generation, and by the growing children as well. Our studies confirm that the middle-aged have succumbed under the sense of their inability to help their children, as they grow up, on the professional, the moral and the educational plane - in fact, on any plane at all. The parents' anxiety, it seems to me, is not the last factor in the negative phenomena we are faced with every day."

THE MEDIA

Sergei Sokolov, teacher and journalist (the New Gazette): "Our children lack elementary behavioural models, those notorious stereotypes, on which they can orient. Formerly, such models were formed at school. Today, with all my respect for the teachers, this does not take place any longer, because the teacher is no authority. The family is no authority either. Because a lack of confidence in the adults is passed over to the children, and they start to perceive the adults as their peers, whom they can even teach a lesson or two... What is it then, that actually serves to educate our children, proposing to them new stereotypes and a new set of myths? It is no other than the mass culture, which may have either the sign of minus, or the sign of plus. It is here that the leading role, presently assumed by the media, is manifested as a means of education. And what is typical today of the journals and the newspapers? First of all, a mercantile consciousness... Besides, we see an extreme aggressiveness of the printed matter and of the TV programmes, manifest in the choice of the material and in the manner of presenting it by the TV dictors: their intonation alone may plunge a child into a state of profound depression. Disputes have been held for a long time on the issue, whether aggression on the TV screen can take off psychological complexes. It can do so in a healthy society, but in our society it is just the opposite: it can only provoke them."

BEHAVIOURAL MODELS

Olga Zdravomyslova, sociologist: "What do we expect from our children? We expect that they can achieve that, in which we have ourselves failed. We want our children to be capable of achieving an individual success. The past generations of Soviet people have never set themselves the goal of achieving an individual success ... so that our children have to orient themselves onto the American model of achieving success, because there is no Russian model in existence. But for the American model of success, we have no ethical grounds elaborated in the present-day Russian culture, and this is a serious handicap... One of the myths of the era of the transformations and revolutions says that a deep gap appears between the generations. However, we do no proff of this in our studies. The children have no other model, except for that provided by the parents, but they are faced with a fundamentally different life problem... Much have been said here about the fact that the values and the norms are upset, and that we should create an army of salvation for children. It seems to me that all of us are trying to understand, whether we can achieve success and at the same time remain moral in our society, relying on the Russian culture (and not taking over a ready-made model, be it an American or a West European one)."

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The above citations from the reports of some participants in the debates give a very approximate idea of the different approaches to education, expressed in the course of the discussion. On the whole, one of the central goals, set in this get-together, was an attempt at bringing closer the pedagogues theoreticians and the people, engaged in the practical work of educating the growing generation, at assisting them to reach a better mutual understanding and thus to build a bridge between theory and practice.
"As we analyse the strong and the weak points of this event," says Irina Virganskaya, "we should point it out that on the whole we have succeeded in delineating the circle of problems, involved in the upbringing of children in contemporary Russia, in launching a public discussion and in calling forth a public response. However, in the course of the discussion itself, the gap between the theoretians and the people, engaged in the live, practical work, have come into the limelight. The former see the tasks, faced by the practitioners, as trifling, while the latter accuse the theoreticians of being too much aloof from the realities. So finally we all have been aware that the problem of the gap, existing between theory and practice, should be resolved not in words, but by a different means."
The Club members have decided to select the most interesting out of the practical projects, submitted during the discussion, and to try and find support for them. Thus, the public discussion was followed by another, though a small-scale, event, to which we invited representatives of the three organizations, whose projects were selected by the Club members as the most promising, a few honorary guests and the would-be sponsors. In the opinion of the participants, this event, held jointly with the Obshchaya (Common) Gazette, was a success, and its concrete practical outcome has demonstrated that this form of work is very promising. Here is what Elena Topoleva, a Club member, said: 'The typical distinction of Raissa Maximovna's Club from the majority of similar entities consists in that here they are not satisfied with only debating the problems but are looking for the promising non-profit projects and are trying to support them. This is not always expressed in a monetary form, for the practice proves that rather often, publicity alone is enough for making a successful start."
Now, the problem of homeless children is on the Club's agenda. "At our next event, we shall try to analyze the sources of the child homelessness and why this problem has assumed so frightening dimensions," says Irina Virganiskaya. "In the course of the discussion, we shall once again put forth certain practical projects, and then we are planning to stage a large-scale charity action. We are often asked," Irina goes on, "why is it that the Club does not concentrate its attention on some individual problem. It is possible that, if the Club members represented a single profession or were engaged in a uniform sphere of activity, we would have tried to tackle a single concrete problem. But as it is, all of us are quite different people, and we are united not by any professional interest, but by a deep conviction that the civil society is unimaginable without public initiatives. In no country across the world (the more so in this country) can the state embrace the entire circle of problems. The vacuum must be filled in, and who must do this? It is the non-profit organizations and private initiatives, of course! And it is precisely at rendering assistance to the public organizations, which assume upon themselves the resolution of various socially important problems, that the activity of our Club it aimed."

Well, we wish success on this noble road to Raissa Maximovna's Club from the bottom of our hearts!


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