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      Help Your Own Neighbour

      Liza Jirikova Manager of Volunteer Programmes at the Compassion Humanitarian Charity Centre

One day Ulof Palma, Prime Minister of Sweden and one of the most popular public figures in Western Europe, said that the society's level of development must be estimated not by successes in the economic and in the military fields, but by how well it maintains its old people, children and invalids. The more humane society is, the better care it takes of its weakest members. Applying this criterion, we can hardly refer our society to the category of humane ones, for the old people here have been just thrown to the side of life and forgotten. The old age is always a hard trial, but an old age, multiplied by poverty, loneliness, disability and illness - what can be more frightening than such an outcome of the human life?
Transition to a market economy has proved to be particularly difficult for the elder generation. As a result of the massive dismissals, many people of a mature age (and first of all, women with two or three years until the pension age), have lost their links with their work collectives, which have been for them the only social relationships. The status of a pensioner has pushed them down into the social abyss. And not only because they have been allocated but a beggarly pension - the wages at many state-run eneterprises are no more than an average pension, too, but also because their capabilities and their desire to do something for society have proved useless and unclaimed. We would like to tell you about the women, who, when faced with a similar life situation, have not withdrawn into themselves and have not grown hard at the heart, but have found in themselves the strength to assist still weaker and needier people.
On the photo: Visiting nurse with her patient.
At the Compassion, a humanitarian-charity centre, a programme has been successfully operating, over several years now, called Assistance at Home; it consists in the efforts to draw the "young pensioners" (of 55-60 years of age) into a voluntary work, involved in rendering assistance to the old and the disabled. The Compassion centre was set up in February 1992 on the base of the charity programme, launched by the Moscow branch of the Memorial society. Its principal goal is to render psychological, medical and social aid to the victims of the Stalinist repressions. For the most part, these are the old, sick and lonely people; the unjustified arrests and the imprisonment have distorted the life of many of them, deprived them of relatives and of friends; the inhuman conditions of their life have had a tragic effect upon their state of health. Today these people suffer from a whole complex of psychomatic derangements, which have aggravated with the age. Such patients require not only kindness and patience, but a specialized medical assistance and the psychological rehabilitation. Therefore, in addition to the so-called social team, made up of visiting nurses and volunteers, the programme Assistance at Home also draws on the services of variously specialized doctors - gerontologists, psychotherapeutists, etc. Over six years of the Centre's existence, more than 5,000 elderly residents of the City of Moscow have been rendered medical, psychological and patronage assistance. This does not seem so very much for such a multi-million megapolis as our capital city, but for each lonely and diseased person, the attention, care and kindness are priceless.
To embrace with assistance as many people in need of it as possible, the Centre requires new trained volunteers. Since September of the past year, the Compassion Centre has launched a new project with the support of the Soros Foundation and the Government of Moscow. This project is aimed at drawing into the volunteer programme the people, who have recently retired to a pension, and at organizing volunteer groups under the guidance of experienced visiting nurses, who have been working at the Centre for at least three years. Our call has found response mostly among women. Today we have already ten visiting nurses, who have passed through a special training and now lead small groups of volunteers. The visiting nurses consult the volunteers, if they come upon difficulties in rendering the first aid to the 90-100 year invalids. Until recently, many volunteers used to stop their activity, because of the difficulty in communicating with the elderly people and because of the sense of helplessness and confusion, when suddenly some kind of the specialized aid was required. Now an experienced consultant is always at hand: if you face some sort of a difficulty, you can always have the explanations you need by telephone and you cna call a visiting nurse to the patient's home. Every visiting nurse keeps an eye over the state of health of three or four patients.
The work with the elderly people demands so much spiritual and physical strength from the Centre's employees and volunteers, that in some time they feel the need for the psychological support themselves. For this reason, the specialists from the Circle Centre of Psychological Support hold, twice a year, the rehabilitation courses for them, so that they can find the peace of the heart and mobilize some extra spiritual resources for going on with their noble work.
Those who have come to the Compassion Centre at the call of their heart and soul, say that the care of their neighbours makes them purer and wiser, and draws them closer to each other. They say that because of their work, they begin to realize that love is the pivot of the human existence in this cruel world, and they try to live with love.

Today, we are also unfolding a few other lines of activity at the Compassion Humanitarian Charity Centre.

"The Young for the Elderly"
A group of visiting nurses, made up of the seniour form schoolgirls, which help the aged, diseased and lonely people to keep home, to buy the foodstuffs and medicines, to make the walks and to visit the doctors, is organized jointly with the Centre for the Social Servicing of the Prospekt Vernadskogo microdistrict in Moscow.
"The Press for the Poorly-Off "
Volunteers from among the school children deliver, free of charge, to the elderly and poorly-off residents of the microdistrict the newspapers, issued specially for the aged, such as the Veteran, I am a Pensioner, and Dignity.
"The Orphanage"
The work of the volunteer assistants is organized, jointly with the Moscow branch of the Red Cross, at the children's reception and distribution centre of the Western District in Moscow. To help rehabilitate the orphans with some mental and psychic defects, the volunteer girls have launched a literary and theatrical, and an art studios, as well as a house-keeping circle.
Our work is thrust at making everything in our power to make better the life of the weakest members of our society and to support a sense of human dignity in them.

Telephone for contacts/fax: 245-2209 E-mail compassion@glasnet.org


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